Jayme has been an online writer for over six years. She is an artist, blogger, and freelancer. She often writes about DIY home projects.
My grandmother was a master of frugal living. She could pinch a penny hard enough to flatten it. She took saving money and cutting corners to a dangerous extreme sometimes.
Perhaps that is why whenever I see articles on living frugally, I break out in a nervous sweat. After all, her methods created all sorts of havoc throughout the years. In this generation she could have been an instant celebrity, the star of a reality show titled Extreme Frugal Living or something similar.
I give advance warning here: None of this is exaggerated. I am presenting it in a humorous format, but in truth, some of her ideas were not very funny. Different people have different ideals and standards, so if any of these appeal to you (and some are very practical in theory) then by all means, use them seriously. Do use common sense though before trying some of these at home!
Grandma's Tips on How to Score Freebies
My grandmother loved receiving free stuff. In fact, I think she had a closet addiction to scoring a free item or two. It didn't matter to her if it was new or used, useful or pointless, awesome or atrocious. Here are some of her top methods for acquiring freebies:
- Prizes and Incentives Remember when products used to come with promotional trinkets? At one time, all of her dishes and towels came from laundry soap boxes. And she kept the toys out of cereal boxes.
- Salvage If someone wasn't using something, she had to have it. Even if she didn't need it. No sense in letting it "go to waste".
- Beg I don't mean standing on street corners, but if someone had something she wanted or needed, she didn't hesitate to ask for it. Better, she would launch into a dialogue about how poor she was and how much she would love to have just one of whatever it was.
Grandma's Repurposing and Upcycling Tricks
When we think of repurposing a piece of clothing by turning it into a decorative pillow, or perhaps upcycling a jar into a pincushion, don't we all envision something cute and clean? Something we can share on Pinterest or create a tutorial with?
My grandmother had slightly different ideas about re-using items.
- Wash and save bread wrappers (never use them again, just save them).
- Wash and reuse plastic storage bags, even if they had spoiled food or raw poultry in them.
- Use butter bowls instead of the hundreds of Tupperware bowls she stored under the bed.
- Turn tin cans into drinking glasses to save the "good glasses".
Now, before you start tsk-tsking me and saying that "this is how some old people are," do let me say that she was like this by habit from an early age. The family photo album tells a lot.
How Grandma Saved Money on Utilities
Grandma had unique ways to cut back on the use of electricity, water. and gas. Even when she was not paying these bills herself, the rules were firm.
- Only one lamp on after dark.
- Wash laundry only once a month
- Food should never bake more than two hours.
My grandmother was convinced that the more food you put in the fridge, the more electricity it used. No amount of lecturing would change her mind. No number of warnings would deter her from putting stuff that "wouldn't spoil fast" on the counters, tables, or the porch outside.
- Flush toilets once a day, regardless of contents.
- Bathe once a month.
- Wash hair in bath water.
- Run one dishpan of water per week. Add bleach. Use this to wash and rinse dishes all week.
- Share baths. Not romantically. This means that one person takes a clean bath, then everyone else bathes, one by one, in the same water.
- Re-use "slightly" dirty dishes, such as glasses and silverware. Three uses at least before they need washing.
- Re-wear outfits for three weeks before laundering.
How to Eat Like Grandma
Like many people who "survived hard times," my grandmother had an obsession with hoarding food. Wasting food was a hanging offense. According to all sources, she was never at a risk for starving. Maybe for a few days in the 1940s.
Did I mention not wasting food? When I say not wasting, what I mean is "nothing gets thrown away. It had better be eaten."
This included any food that had expired, curdled, soured, or started singing opera when you opened the fridge door. It isn't merely worry about doing without.
Grandma loves food. A lot. She used to call her friends and ask what they were eating for dinner. If you went to visit her, she told you what everyone had cooked over the last week:
"Patty made a peach cobbler. I sure hope she ate it. I hate to think she mighta thrown it out. Oh! And Lurlene made a Tex-Mex scramble on Thursday. She called and told me it was really good. I sure wish she had brought me some. I know she won't eat leftovers."
Want to cut your food budget? Try some of these ideas:
- Keep expired food.
- Carefully removed discolored particles from leftovers to revitalize them.
- Don't forget to beg for food from friends and neighbors. Never use your sugar when you can borrow a cup!
- Use coupons to buy food you don't like. You might need whatever it is, someday.
- Weevils? Sift them out.
Frugal Use of Disposable Items
Sure. I bargain shop for deals on paper towels and toilet paper. And when feasible (and sanitary) I use rags rather than paper for clean-up. However, I think there is a distinct line between being frugal, and depriving oneself of basic comforts.
Grandma would disagree:
- Two sheets of toilet paper. ALWAYS.
- A paper towel should be re-used until it falls apart (regardless of what it was used for).
- Kleenex can be used more than two or three times.
- One teaspoon of dish soap regardless of load size or type of cooking mess.
- Plain water is all you need to clean counters, sinks, appliances, etc.
- A bar of soap should last a year. Any less and you were using too much.
- Gargle and then spit the mouthwash back in the bottle. It's your spit! It won't hurt you!
Creating a Frugal Image
My grandmother enjoys appearing much poorer than she actually is. At the moment, she is being cared for by her daughter and son-in-law, who try to see to it that all of her needs are well met. Most people who struggled through hard times would probably love to have this opportunity, but it irks my grandmother's sense of style.
I'm not sure if there is a mental illness that specifically addresses this issue. We simply think of it as her "poor" look. An example of this:
When she first moved in with my mother, she was in possession of a bedspread so old and torn and filthy that it was a health hazard. She had twenty sets of new linens that she had received for holidays that she refused to use. Still, my parents were not about to let her continue sleeping under something that was growing mildew!
And honestly, the spread would not have survived a washing. So they bought her a brand new bedding set. They made her bed with it, and when they took her in there to show her the surprise her response, in typical grandma fashion was:
"At least let me cover that up with an old quilt. If anyone saw that they would think I had money."
I am sure this links into her bad begging habit that I mentioned above. She was notorious for hiding all of her new dishtowels and matching flatware in a cupboard.
When visitors would comment on her worn towels or mismatched, thrift-store spoons, she would lament that it was the best she could manage. Inevitably, a new set would appear shortly after. After a few days of being displayed, these too would vanish into the bowels of her house.
Lesson learned: if you present yourself as impoverished, eventually people will take pity on you and donate items. You will score many cool items. And here and there, even at great personal risk, you will save that penny.
Moral of the story: Frugal living isn't always a good thing!
Practical Frugality Tips
Okay, so we have gone through some of the wildest and scariest methods of saving money. How about some practical advice? I won't claim to be an expert, but after years of being around grandma I do know that sometimes the don'ts are just as important as the do's.
- If you don't need it, there is no reason to save it. As in, if you have Tupperware, there is no need to use butter bowls. At least not in the kitchen!
- Don't risk your health to save a few cents! A $5,000 hospital bill is worse than losing a tablespoon of green beans!
- Do repurpose when practical. Use those plastic bowls and bags, but only if it is sanitary. Don't save more than you can use in a lifetime!
- NEVER reuse mouthwash!
- Don't sacrifice hygiene to save soap!
- Do save energy by turning off unused appliances and light fixtures.
Now. Go forth and find more ways to save money. Just remember to use some common sense!
B Saha on January 16, 2019:
This article made me feel sick to my stomach. I am sure times were extremely tough or else noone would do all this.
Juan from Mexico on April 12, 2018:
Extream tips, but some of them are excelent
Liss on March 01, 2018:
Lol but remember in the 40s they had ration cards and the food was rationed. My reletives made clothing from flour sacks which was a popular thing to do back then because you already had the material from the flour. I grew up eating foods my parents grew up with in the Great Depression.
Ladybugs777 on November 19, 2017:
I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if I would consider that being frugal. For one thing, it's mentioned that she loved getting free stuff and collected those toys from boxes of cereal. Yet that isn't free if she made that unnecessary purchase.
Elina on October 08, 2017:
This article has really grossed me out. Sorry but your grandmother has some deeper serious issues. Everything she does is not normal or right. I don't have enough words to describe my disgust.
Cate on December 01, 2016:
Being frugal is one thing....I am frugal. Your grandmother, however, was FILTHY. NO excuse for that!
Jenna on November 26, 2016:
My family was almost this frugal growing up there were six kids mom would make two baths you had to share I hated it to this day I take two showers everyday
LAC on September 10, 2016:
My parents were born into and grew up in the great Depression. My fathers sister (Aunt) was born in 1929. In the 1940's there were LOTS of food rationing and you got food rationing cards. So if you really wanted something you had to save enough cards for it. These may seem like extreme ways to save but back then when you just didn't have the money to buy or you were saving your ration cards for a big item then you HAD to cut back in other areas. You know that the news is constantly talking about another financial collapse BIGGER than the Great Depression so I am tying not to waste money on things I can make and do myself.
JC in Ky on July 24, 2016:
Sad but I know some folks that live like that today .I grew up poor and I live Frugal but I know folks who are so tight with their money it's sad they don't eat what want , won't wear there nice clothes ,or have a drawer full of nice towels and wash clothes but won't use them they wear worn out shoes , being this tight ,cheap or greedy is just as bad as some one who spends and wastes everything
Michael Belk from Mississippi on February 26, 2016:
I love the subject of this hub. It proves that the elderly has a lot to teach us about life.
Michael Belk from Mississippi on February 25, 2016:
It turns out that our parents were right on saving money and the best way to live a frugal life.
An elderly man once told me to not spend all my money in one place. Now I know what he meant.
Asher Socrates from Los Angeles, CA on February 21, 2016:
Way to go Granny! And great work Jayme! We all are responsible for making the proper conscious decision on how to leave a smaller foot print on our magnificent and beautiful plantet.
flwrsetc on February 02, 2016:
Brings back many memories of my grandmother too! We used to go visit & when we ran out of toilet paper, we'd have to sit there & give her the empty spool so she could roll 2 more, using the roll you just finished!
Nicole K on January 15, 2016:
Hahaha! Food with weevils, just sift them out! Pretty funny stuff here! I could also never do laundry only once a month. I could probably turn off a lot more lights in the evening though. Thanks for sharing!
Matty Navarro from New Jersey on January 09, 2016:
Wow! when I came across this hub, I never expected it to make me laugh so hard. I love frugal living, but not so extreme. I reuse containers, and have kids re-wear clothes if they don't smell, but that's only about two or three times. I can't imagine someone wearing dirty clothes for three weeks. Oh my God!!! and the mouthwash just could not do that.
Amie Says on October 24, 2015:
There are probably several mental illness issues going on with your grandmother. Hoarders can be very manipulative as well, which I see here in spades.
My mother used to do the margarine tub thing, but she included Cool Whip containers. Every year, one of us would take her out for the day over Christmas holidays and the rest of us would go clean out her stash and throw out the ones without lids. She still had plenty, mind you, but she would get furious at us for cleaning up. Heaven forbid we threw out any old, expired food, but we did it anyway. She got food poisoning once from eating greens that had been sitting in her fridge for a week, saying "Well, I didn't want them to go to waste." She's make us "leave a bit" of something for her, but she would never eat it, and raise the roof if you ate it so it wouldn't spoil! We never could get her to get help for her problems.
skperdon from Canada on July 01, 2015:
Lol! Reminds me of my Grandmother, she did some of these back in her younger days.
But she was a clean freak too, so she didn't get to the "salmonella and ecoli" farm stage.
But she did wash the plastic bread bags and such.
Excellent writing on a very delicate topic Jayme! I was both grossed out and well entertained. Thank you.
Credit Comedy on June 19, 2015:
I thought only Credit Comedy had great jokes, but I was wrong... I loved the idea of less showers, the only draw back would be your bank account will be high, but your social life will be low...
MarloByDesign from United States on February 26, 2015:
Flushing once a day regardless of what's in the toilet...ewwww...
Kristen Howe from Northeast Ohio on February 25, 2015:
Interesting hub on how to go on a frugal budget. Some ideas are interesting, while some I don't think I'll do, like bathe/shower a month. Common sense is ideal. Thanks for sharing.
ezzly on December 08, 2014:
Ha ha this made me laugh :) my nana was the same she was born in 1901 so had lived through 2 wars rationing etc. she loved marzipan so she would pick it off iced Christmas cake and lick the icing back on. Ends of soaps would be squished together to form 1 weird lump, a lovely habit she passed on to my dad , needless to say I love liquid hand soap , no squishing required! One nice thing though, she used to keep scraps of fabric and give them to me , i loved that!
Zoryana from Ukraine on December 07, 2014:
I 've heared about washing in the same water but i cn't accept it at all :) contamination is the direct consequence.... Unbelievabe. But still thank you, a good and very fascinating hub.
Virginia Allain from Central Florida on November 15, 2014:
It's really sad when you go to an estate sale and all the nice things are stored away in their original wrappings, never used. "Too good to use."
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on November 12, 2014:
@Grand old lady--Any hard times can lead to people becoming stressed over money, that is for sure! They do need to study it more, and instead of just saying "its because they went through this", actually helping them cope better and learn how to spend and save wisely. Thank you for sharing your insight--it is very interesting to know that its a worldwide phenomenon!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on November 12, 2014:
@Thelma Alberts--the bathwater was scary! Yes, using one lamp is fine, as long as you are not doing something that needs good lighting. Eyestrain is not fun! For just relaxing while watching television though, it is a great way to cut down on lighting expenses.
@Bob Go--Seems like a lot of grandmothers are pretty frugal! Thanks for reading!
@nathalia27 She sounds like a wise woman, balancing her frugal living with common sense. I greatly admire wise frugality!
Thrifty-fee on November 11, 2014:
Gosh this scared me! Funnily enough I just type-od scarred instead of scared! Ha, that's maybe a bit fraudien! :p It;s good to have perspective in our thrifty habits. Saving money should be about being able to enjoy the good things in life- not denying ourselves everything that causes is to feel relaxed or happy. I know from my own experience that money-worries can take a toll. Best to keep that perspective when we are doing well- enough!
Dolly on October 25, 2014:
Reading what your grandmother did reminds me of things my own grandmother used to do. Most things weren't too bad, but she tended to cut corners the most in an area that had the most potential to cause harm--the kitchen. Leftovers from breakfast, lunch, and dinner were carefully wrapped in saran wrap and left out on the counter all day in case anyone wanted any. Meat, left out all day. She had a pitcher she made orange juice in every day, but never ever ever washed the container. I took the lid off one day and found a BLACK ring of scum a good 1/8" thick on the underside of the lid. She never washed the pitcher, just added more water and frozen concentrate every morning. She had a dish rag that she would wash the dishes with, then wipe down the stove and counter with, and then hang up to 'dry'. As she did this routine three times a day the rag never dried. It was so rank, and black and spotted with mold I threw it away one day and boy, did she get mad. Finally, her method of washing dishes was a leftover from The Olden Days. She put two little tubs down in the sink (it was those little pink tub/basin things you get when you're in the hospital and you get to take it home with you). She would fill one with hot soapy water to wash dishes in, and the other with hot water to rinse the dishes in. Wash one plate, run it through the rinse water, and put the plate on the drain board. Next dish washed, ran through the rinse water, etc. Of course after the first soapy plate went through the rinse water, it was dirty with bits of food floating in it, so she was doing nothing more than rinsing dishes in dirty, soapy, food-bit infested rinse water. And then wondered why she had diarrhea all the time.
God bless her, she had so many simple ways, but not all of them were safe.
Keisha Hunter from Kingston, Jamaica on October 24, 2014:
Cute grandma but! All that stuff about reusing bath water and such really shook me up.
Stuart Avig from Farmington Hills, MI on October 16, 2014:
I couldn't go passed "wash water in bath water" - yikes!
John Hollywood from Hollywood, CA on September 15, 2014:
Loved this hub. I know a few people who are this extreme today and they are younger than one might think! Voted up!
PMARTIN on September 11, 2014:
I wont even comment on the kleenex and mouthwash but how do you make a bar of soap last a month? Actually I cringe at your possible answer.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on September 01, 2014:
@April--I am all for being resourceful! I've seen many people slip hags over their shoes to get a little water-proofing. Nothing wrong with that. My grandmother though would have probably made everyone do that even if they had all had brand new waterproof boots in the closet! Lol!
@natalie Tiltman--Thanks for reading! Glad you enjoyed!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on September 01, 2014:
@Shelley--That sounds about the same. Grandma's sisters didn't do it either. Neither did her older siblings who really were struggling adults during the Depression. I guess some people just have that inclination!
Liz Elias from Oakley, CA on September 01, 2014:
Omigosh!! A lot of those are just plain scary! I couldn't decide which was worse on your poll--you need to add a choice for "all of the above." ;-)
My mother came through the great depression of the 1920s, but never went to those extremes. Even though raised as a full-on Yankee, with their motto of "Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without," health and well being was never sacrificed on that "altar."
She saved mayonnaise and mustard jars, some plastic bags, and such for storing leftovers (we didn't have Tupperware back then), and she had several glass-lidded Pyrex™ dishes that were also used. Old, worn clothes and towels became ripped up for cleaning rags, and went into "the rag bag." But I do not recall any such extreme examples as you gave.
Spoiled or dubious food was not a risk we took. There, the saying was, "If in doubt, throw it out."
Voted up, funny, interesting and useful..there are a few reasonable tidbits in there... ;) Your grandmother sounds like a real character! ;) Peace out!
Joanna McKenna from Central Oklahoma on September 01, 2014:
I think there's a fine line between being overly frugal and just plain wasteful. My own mother would waste water washing aluminum foil (that she NEVER re-used) but limited my brother and me to one bath a week (Saturday night, but we each got fresh water!) to "save on the water bill".
In her case, I can truthfully say she was woefully short on common sense. The prime example was when she came home with a new medicine cabinet for the bathroom that she'd found at a department store's after-tornado sale. Fine except that it had a diagonal crack in the mirror on the door, but it was a "great" bargain because an identical cabinet with only a few out-of-sight scratches and no crack was fifty cents more. (My dad gave her the 50 cents and told her to go back for an uncracked one, but she wouldn't budge and eventually we got used to looking at one side of the mirror or the other, never in the middle.) Her perked coffee was so weak it looked like iced tea, so it was rather hilarious to watch her shudder at the first sip of full-strength coffee away from home. On sheet-changing day, the bottom flat sheet went to the laundry, but the top flat sheet went to the bottom for a week, then the ends got swiched for another week. That way the part that had been under the pillows would be at the foot. Never made sense to me either, especially in the days before A/C.
Like your grandmother, she never used the "nice" towels, etc that she received as gifts. Her good silverware (which wasn't actually silver) was kept in the case it came in. Anything "good" was kept for special occasions. Never mind that very few relatives ever visited. It's for this reason that I use the "good" stuff every day. Because *I'm* special, a concept that took years to learn.
I have my own frugal ways, but nothing like my mother's. I finally broke myself (mostly) of saving empty butter tubs and other containers food comes in. A couple of times a year I'll go through the cabinets and toss containers I kept because they were "too good" to throw away at the time. Every electrical item except the fridge gets unplugged when not in use. "Experts" say when a lamp or small appliance isn't turned on when plugged in, it doesn't use electricity, but I live in a duplex and my electric bill is almost half of the neighbor's on the other side despite the fact that we have the same number of lights, lamps, small appliances, etc. When the freezer isn't full of frozen food, I fill the gaps with water-filled milk containers, which came in handy when the city water was shut off for several days to repair the main. The rare times I eat out, I always bring home a handful of extra paper napkins to use instead of paper towels or as emergency toilet paper.
There are lots of ways to be frugal without risking one's health OR stinting on comfort!
Erin Jade from South Australia on August 11, 2014:
You know what? I actually love her idea of using butter containers as her tupperware dishes. It's actually a perfect size for freezing for one portions so i might have to implement that! On the subject of food however she must have had a cast iron gut and an extremely strong immune system to keep up with that food storage and cleaning regime, possibly a little extreme for me. I do love her justification of spitting the mouthwash back in, what a funny lady! Although there isn't a lot I will be implementing differently to what I do now based on your grandmothers advice this was a very humorous read thank you!
Vanessa on August 06, 2014:
This made me remember my own grandma ! She would lay out pans with food in the sun to re-heat food, since she didn't want to waste electricity or gas. When fruit would go bad, she would make beverages and add a lot of sugar so people couldn't notice the bad taste.
Silva Hayes from Spicewood, Texas on July 29, 2014:
The Depression caused some people to live under such extreme hardships that we today can hardly imagine. For example, can you imagine not having a safety pin when you need one? Most of us have safety pins, paper clips, and hair pins, etc. cluttering our bins and desk drawers and don't think twice about it. My grandmother gave birth to twins during the Depression. They didn't know they were having twins because they did not receive any pre-natal care. They only had three safety pins in the house, and they needed four - two for each baby to fasten their cloth diapers. My grandfather sent one of the older boys to a neighboring farm to borrow a safety pin. True story.
They were all so poor that there was one set of current car license plates in the entire county. When someone needed to drive to town, they would walk to the one farmer who had license plates for his car, and they would borrow the plates, take them home, and wire them on to their own car, returning them when they got back from town.
howtopam from Alberta, Canada on July 29, 2014:
I agree that the frugal living thing can get carried away. But some of us have had life very easy for many years and have never experienced the difficult financial trials that others have gone through. After living life for 30 year in luxury I made a voluntary decision to give up everything and move out to an acreage in the country where I try now to live as a minimalist. I am enjoying the numerous challenges and discovering that I no longer need to spend $6000.00 per month to be content.
Rebecca Sutton from Rock Hill, SC on July 28, 2014:
Oh dear God! I am sending this to my mother...My gram (rest her soul) used to carry ziplock bags and steal rolls from restaurants. She also hoarded the creamers and jellies, but never used them...I also am willing to admit, among friends, that I find creamers in my pockets and purse sometimes...
jefboyardee on July 28, 2014:
"Share baths. Not romantically. This means that one person takes a clean bath, then everyone else bathes, one by one in the same water."
That's the likely source of the old saying, "don't throw the baby out with the bath water:"
"Some claim the phrase originates from a time when the whole household shared the same bath water. The head of household (Lord) would bathe first, followed by the men, then the Lady and the women, then the children, followed lastly by the baby. The water would be so black from dirt that a baby could be accidentally 'tossed out with the bathwater' "
Kara Skinner from Maine on July 28, 2014:
Wow, and I thought some of my friends were extremely frugal. Thanks for the awesome hub. It was very funny and I just voted up.
JuanDo on July 28, 2014:
Some interesting points. I don't think it's bad to be frugal, but if what you do imposes or reduces your quality of living, then maybe you need to take a step back. By the way, very well written hub!
Maria Giunta from Sydney, Australia on July 28, 2014:
I had a giggle or two whilst reading this. One of my grandmother's had some strange frugal habits too, she kept flour bags (when flour came in hessian bags) and ended up having so many she filled the smaller bedroom in her home with them. They were a fire hazard! Thanks for a funny read, voted up.
Joe Young from Blyth, Northumberland, England on July 25, 2014:
A very funny and well written hub. There are some useful tips in there too.
Debbi on July 20, 2014:
This was so funny and a few "gasps" too lol!
S T Guy from USA on July 07, 2014:
I am not sure its a good idea, when you are compromising health and safety.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on July 01, 2014:
@Sue--sounds like a lovely childhood! The difference is that your grandmother really did have to make do, but it sounds like she did a lovely job and still tried to make things nice. Quite the opposite, my grandmother never suffered, and yet, she loved the idea of seeming poor. And sadly, she never actually saved any money by being that way. Just had tons more stuff in her home than she could use.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on July 01, 2014:
@moonlake--I know that it was practical lifestyle, and sometimes even necessary. I didn't want to sound as though I was against frugal living (I'm not). But I do think it can be taken to unhealthy extremes. I use many frugal tips from my grandmother. Others, not so much! (mouthwash...no way!) Thank you for reading and commenting!
Rebecca Mealey from Northeastern Georgia, USA on June 21, 2014:
This is funny, but it has it's serious side, too. I have an uncle that is a hoarder. He drives my aunt crazy. I enjoyed reading this!
Jenn-Anne on June 21, 2014:
Gotta love frugal grandmas! Great hub - fun and enjoyable to read!
Chris from India on June 21, 2014:
I just gave you everything from useful to interesting. Oh God! I am so glad I read that article... it really has made my day. Chances are I would have loved your grandmother, she sounds like an eccentric and we have a fair share of those in our family too. She would have made me feel right at home. I had this one great-grandmother who used to look up at the ceiling fan and say she could see Jesus sitting atop it, and no, she was perfectly sane, had a good job she was great at. Another great grandmother had a chronic forgetting habit, she would do great dishes and forget to serve them to her husband, letting it go to waste often. There are all types and this type certainly could have been added to our family's interesting specimen list. Do tell your grandmother that I do really love her though I don't even know her, she sounds just like family and thank you for that great article. I will be reading all of your's whenever I get the time, that's for sure. And have a great day!
Mary Hyatt from Florida on June 21, 2014:
I was brought up poor and I learned to be frugal from necessity. I am still pretty frugal! Old habits don't die easily. I reuse Ziplocs after I wash them out. My kids tease me about the out of date stuff in my refrig. Oh, my I could go on and on about how to be frugal!
Americans are very wasteful, I think!
Great Hub. Voted UP and shared.
CrisSp from Sky Is The Limit Adventure on June 18, 2014:
Lol! Extreme...totally extreme but good job incorporating some humors. I love to up-cycle and re-store things though just for fun.
Good hub! I enjoyed it. :)
Mona Sabalones Gonzalez from Philippines on May 14, 2014:
This is a great hub. I notice a lot of people commented on the depression years. In the Philippines a lot of us complained of mothers who kept the best things in a chest and never used them until they were worn so thin that they were useless. My cousin blamed it on the fact that they went through the war. So it's likely that any act associated with over frugality could be due to stress from a difficult time, whether it's the depression or war. I think this is a topic that would make a very interesting, in-depth study.
Nancy on May 14, 2014:
My granny used to live frugally during her time here, but not as that extremely frugal living. Not to the extend that her health will put into risk.
Harry Baldwin from New England (various locations) on May 14, 2014:
Reminds me of my grandmother. Maybe not as extreme in some ways, but no doubt more extreme in others!
Thelma Alberts from Germany and Philippines on May 14, 2014:
That was an extreme frugal living of your grandmother. I could not imagine myself taking a bath in the same water after the others used it. I would love to use the idea of using only 1 lamp in the house. Thanks for sharing this very interesting and funny hub.
Natalie Tiltman on May 14, 2014:
I loved reading this! Thank you for sharing. Your Grandmother sounds as though she is a great character.
April on March 31, 2014:
My grandmother did all of this, we live on a farm next to her my whole life and the bread bags/grocery bags were used to put on our feet and then put on our boots so our feet didn't get wet. I find myself sometimes being frugal but not to these extremes. Living in hard times and on a farm you find ways to use everything you can!
Shelly on March 30, 2014:
Wow! You've brought up so many memories of my great Aunt. She saved everything and wasted nothing! When she passed it took forever to clear out her "just in case" piles! I often wondered as a kid how she never made herself sick with the food she ate and the conditions she
lived in. Everyone in the family knew to NEVER eat anything Aunt Dot brought to a gathering. Funny though, my grandmother, her sister never had this tendency to save "stuff".
Silva Hayes from Spicewood, Texas on February 11, 2014:
Sue, my mother was just like that. She had a vegetable garden with berry vines climbing up the fence and fruit trees. She composted, canned and froze vegetables and fruit and made her own bread.
sue on February 11, 2014:
Hi thanks for this informative hub. Im from SA. My grandma to had sad memories of the great depression. It motivated her too plant every fruit tree she could find in our small garden. There was a clever vegetable patch as well. We stayed with her in a 3 bedroomed home and really looked forward too baking day, which started the night before with measuring and kneading. next day the smell of freshly baked bread would lure every living sole into the kitchen begging for the crust of the freshly baked warm bread. and while we were eating , she would remind us that things were not always good in the past, and then the lesson of waste not want not. She took very good care of a very large extended family, with only her fruit trees , vegetables, canning and baking every bread and cake and grandpas small salary.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on September 15, 2013:
@marion langley --thanks for reading. Yeah, I know. It is hard to watch too!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on August 26, 2013:
@helene c--Thank you for reading and commenting. No, she didn't save money for gifts or anything like that. She never splurged on herself either. We had her set up so that the only expense she paid was 1/2 of her electric bill (she shared power with her sister and brother-in-law who lived right next to her). Her water, food, clothing, etc were all provided by us or her other relatives. So she either saved her extra money or she spent some at thrift stores buying old items to replace her nice stuff.
The only thing she ever said she was saving for was an elaborate, multi-state funeral that will cost almost $20,000! It's a mess for sure.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on August 25, 2013:
@Silva Hayes--That is confusing, isn't it? My grandmother saved wrapping paper. Never in my life have I ever seen her wrap a gift. She gives gifts in Wal-Mart sacks!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on August 20, 2013:
@Teen Voice--Indeed, frugal living is very important for most of us as long as it is carried out reasonably and without creating health risks. I have definitely fallen back on many extreme techniques during lean times. Thanks for reading!
moonlake from America on August 15, 2013:
I remember the days when we had to share bathwater. Sears catalogs for toilet paper in the outhouse. I remember all the women family members saving oleo bowls. Hair washing was once a week. How things have changed. Enjoyed your hub and voted up.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on July 23, 2013:
@Sid Kemp--Wow, thanks for the heads up. We have been researching the poverty consciousness and it really does fit with a lot if the issues. I even found a vague reference to it's link with hypochondria, which is another problem, since she also hoarded medicine's and over-medicated herself several times. Thanks again for reading, commenting, and the tip!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on July 01, 2013:
@Janice--yes. Saving bread bags seems to be pretty common. But I have never seen them being reused. Just saved. I definitely save some condiment containers too. They are handy to use as gardening tools. Right now I collect baby wipe containers because they have tons of uses. But I do actually use them. Mostly for organizing small junk. I can't think of any good use for bread wrappers, so I go ahead and throw them away. Thanks for reading!
marion langley from The Study on June 22, 2013:
oh my...thank-you for ending this well, I almost didn't make it all the way through...too disturbing LOL
helene_c from Melbourne, Australia on June 18, 2013:
This is such an interesting hub - luckily no one in my family is this extreme, although my Dad likes to save a lot of things for 'just in case' and I'm trying to get him to clear out his house a bit.
When I was reading this though, I kept thinking, why was she trying to save so much money - did she spend her savings on great holidays or presents for others? Or did she just save for the sake of it. I think that is probably the saddest thing about extreme frugality - unless it is for a certain goal, then it is probably for nowt and you should enjoy your life instead.
Silva Hayes from Spicewood, Texas on June 14, 2013:
Sharkye11, that was the puzzling thing about my grandmother and my mom, too. They saved things but never used them. Example, my mom had hundreds of canning jars and lids in her garage, but had not canned in years. Hundreds of margarine tubs and lids but no use for them.
DFW TEEN VOICE from Richardson, Texas on June 14, 2013:
Frugal living can save you money!Even money to invest if you wanted! Also, this type of living can help you to have extra money to reach your goals and dreams!In this economy learning about ways to re-cycle and re-use can help our youth! You do need to learn the basics in-order to keep and maintain something of value. Frugal living is meeting your basic needs. Enjoyed reading your article with advice & tips. Much Continued Success!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on June 04, 2013:
@Kelly--for sure, there are some things that can definitely be re-used. And should be whenever feasible. My grandmother saved the foil too. But never used it. In fact, she rarely (if ever) used most of the things she saved. That was what was so puzzling about her tendencies. Usually though, she would reuse the garbage stuff, and the nice stuff would just collect dust in the closet. Weird! Until we cleaned her house, I never suspected that plastic storage bowls could dry rot!
Thanks for reading and commenting, and keep being frugal...just don't go wild! Lol!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on June 04, 2013:
@Kenja--thanks, and I will check it out.
Sid Kemp from Boca Raton, Florida (near Miami and Palm Beach) on June 04, 2013:
Thanks, Sharkye. You demonstrate an excellent practice, which is to learn from the extremists, and then move in the right direction in moderation. To be honest, most of what your grandmother did sounds more like poverty consciousness and hoarding, not frugality. But you do a great job turning it around to practical tips in the end. I especially like the idea of up-cycling.
Janice S on June 04, 2013:
Very interesting article. My grandparents grew up the same way and practice some of the same habits, though not all. Saving bread bags and reusing plastic containers from butter or other condiments is something I always seen as well! Great idea for a hub. Nice work!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on May 31, 2013:
@MillionaireTips--I absolutely agree. Once the bills are paid, and all the necessities are provided, you really should take some of that savings and use it for something pleasurable. I have an uncle who worked and saved for years. He wouldn't spend money for medication when he got sick. He was saving the money for when he retired. Then he retired and decided to save for another 15 years. He kept his family on a meager allowance. When he finally got to the goal age to enjoy the savings, he was too sick to do anything. So he sits inside and plays solitaire all day, and complains about all the stuff he never got to do. I certainly don't want to end up that way. Thanks for reading and your wonderful insight!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on May 31, 2013:
@poetvix--yes, the bleach water does lose it's strength if left too long. Especially if exposed to light. The CDC recommends storing bleach solution away from sunlight, and using diluted formulas within 24-48 hours for sanitizing day care equipment, restaurants, etc. So yep, leaving it in the pan for weeks on end, and occasionally adding a new dollop of bleach was only creating a breeding ground for bacteria. Not recommended! Thanks for reading, and I love my dishwasher too!
Kelly Ilebode on May 30, 2013:
I thought this was hysterically funny and brought back so many memories of one of the foster homes I lived in as a child....she would save aluminum foil - her collection was to be envied. I asked her once what she was going to use it for and she just smiled and said, "you never know what the future holds." She was NOT a hoarder, but definitely did re-use ... There is so much waste today, that I try to be more conscious of what my family can reuse....
Ken Taub from Long Island, NY on May 30, 2013:
Great common sense stuff, Shark. Consider contributing to Roel Resources.com www.roelresources.com in the Money 2013 or other sections. I think you'd be an asset. best, Ken
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on May 29, 2013:
@Specialk3749--Lol! I would love to not have to wash laundry ever...but I would still want to have clean clothes. Her idea was that you could wear the same clothes, night and day, (pajamas were just dirtying up unnecessary clothes) for at least three weeks. When you start thinking about food stains, hot weather, gardening, illnesses....those clothes sure took a beating between laundering. Then when you think about wearing the same socks or underwear three weeks straight without changing them....nah. I will use a little soap and water! Thanks for reading!
Shasta Matova from USA on May 28, 2013:
Some people like to save money just for the sake of saving money, and forget that there is a purpose for money. It really is wasteful to save things "for a special occasion" when you are skimping and saving. At least let the family enjoy it!
poetvix from Gone from Texas but still in the south. Surrounded by God's country. on May 28, 2013:
I thought my Granny was the most frugal person in America. Yours has mine beat. I'm all into frugal, but not dangerous. I have to say the bleach dishwater scares me to death. Bleach, when mixed with water, degrades quickly. After 24 hours all disinfecting properties are gone if what I have been taught in numerous classes is correct. Thank you for a most interesting and enjoyable read. I think I'm going to go kiss my disinfecting dishwasher!
Karen Metz from Michigan on May 28, 2013:
I love the "laundry once a month"! I laughed hard at that one....maybe when my kids are all grown and it is just my husband and myself we can do this one. With 7 kids, there is NO way! LOL Loved the hub!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on May 28, 2013:
@Mary--I guess we all have to certain personal limits! She always had the plastic coated paper plates/cups, etc. that she re-washed, so yes, she did re-use paper plates.
I totally can't agree with the mouthwash! I only wish I had taken a picture of that bottle...after 11+ years of being re-gargled it no longer resembled mouthwash, that's for sure!
Frugal living is a great thing, when it saves money and cuts down on waste. Sadly though, most of what she saved went to hospital bills whenever her habits made her sick. Sometimes we do have to splurge a bit on basic hygiene! Still, her tips have been inspirational, and we can all tailor them to suit our needs. I certainly have my own quirky habits that might appall others. :) So glad you read and thank you for the shares and votes.
Mary Hyatt from Florida on May 28, 2013:
I just love your Grandmother! She reminds me of ME! I'm not as extreme as she, though. I loved the idea of spitting back into the bottle, I agree it is one's own spit!
You didn't mention reusing paper plates, I do that if they aren't too dirty. I live a frugal life, that's for sure! My Hubby told me once that he was surprised I didn't reuse toilet paper. Well, I do draw the line on that one.
Voted UP and shared, also Pinned on my Frugal Living Board.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on May 20, 2013:
@CountryCityWoman--I agree, some of her tips were useful. However, she has had countless cases of food poisoning and fungal infections from some of her practices. And I remember visiting once and there were...bugs nesting in one of the un-flushed toilets. I don't think that can be healthy for anyone.
I'm not too sure that the new health information out there is all it's cracked up to e though. My grandma started eating packaged and convenience foods as soon as they were invented. She still drinks a 24 pack of sodas every day, lived in cities, never wore gloves when handling chemicals, and was always surrounded by smokers. (they are all in their nineties and 100's too!) So maybe the great lesson we can learn isn't how frugal or simple she lived, but rather that because she had a tremendous will to live and never feared death or illness, she and others of her generations survived better than younger generations simply because they lived as they pleased without worrying. Stress really is a great killer, and with all the scare-tactics being shouted at us daily, we are constantly on edge as to whether or not something will kill us. Maybe that was, as you put it beautifully, what makes them all steel and diamonds. Thanks for reading and the great comment.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on May 20, 2013:
@VictoriaLynn--I definitely understand it in some cases. My grandmother was a fairly young child at the time though, and they appeared to have been very well off for the times. She always said she didn't even know there was a Depression until she was older at the end of it. So it didn't really make much sense. But...she always had nice things for herself. Maybe she resented having to share with her kids? Interesting psychological question, but one I think we can only speculate on after so many years. One thing is for sure though...I definitely don't want to have to go to these extremes! Thanks for reading, and I'm glad you got a laugh. I really did want to point out the ridiculousness of being extreme. :)
CountryCityWoman from From New York City to North Carolina on May 12, 2013:
I love this...and I love your grandmother's tips! Isn't it interesting how our elders did things like this - and - they lived to be 100! My grandmother lived to be 98 and her brother 102. Now we are dropping in our 50s and 60s doing all these things that are deemed safe.
We forget that today our immune systems are shot, thanks to all the stuff we call food but is really garbage. Then add pollution and stress and stupidity...our elders were made of steel and diamonds and such.
Thanks for a fun read!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on April 02, 2013:
@Deb--Thank you for reading. It can be funny, but then again it can also be very frustrating. I have been doing some further research into this and have found that there are some variations of simple "hoarding" that are similar to what my grandmother does. I am hoping to explore the topic in a more serious hub soon.
Victoria Lynn from Arkansas, USA on April 01, 2013:
I love being frugal, but this is extreme, for sure. I love your sense of humor about it. I think that many folks who went through the depression had the mentality of saving everything. Maybe that's what made them go to extremes? I enjoyed your hub! All the votes!
Deborah Neyens from Iowa on March 05, 2013:
Wow. After reading the tip about the bath water, I fell like I need to go take a long, hot shower. : ) Although this is presented in a humorous manner, I think you are on to something a bit more serious. What would make a person go to these extremes? Maybe something for you to explore in a future hub.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on March 05, 2013:
@BrightMeadow--in most cases I think you are right. My grandmother's family did very well during the Depression though. Pictures of the children from that time show them in lace dresses and leather shoes, and their parents were equally well-dressed. When my grandmother married my grandfather, she was surprised to hear how badly other families had fared during that time. His family almost starved to death! I honestly think it was just a natural instinct for her, just as today's hoarders often have no logical reason for doing what they do. Perhaps this has been going on since the beginning of time, but only recently come to the general attention as being something other than just normal eccentricity?
I hear you on the food! When we moved my grandmother out of her house, we discovered food that was twenty years past it's expiration date. The absolute worst? A box of open cereal that was ten years old!
Thanks for reading and commenting. Hopefully, we will all understand one day what makes people go to such extremes.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on February 20, 2013:
@Lipnancy--it can be sad, definitely. Especially when, like in my grandmother's case, it was uncalled for and un-necessary. She has always been taken care of, but I think she liked the idea that it gained her lots of attention to appear to be so needy. Now that she is living with my parents, she has had some major adjustments, as they insist on hygiene first and foremost!
Claudia Mitchell on February 20, 2013:
Wow - I don't think I could adhere to your grandmother's strict rules, but they definitely make sense! Interesting hub and I do like the one lamp on rule. May have to try that in our house.
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on February 17, 2013:
@duchessoflilac1--Glad you enjoyed it. :) Some things I can understand. Others just make me shake my head!
Jayme Kinsey (author) from Oklahoma on February 16, 2013:
@Sarah Shuihan--Thank you. I like being frugal too. But only when it when it is practical! There is definitely a fine line between beneficial frugality, and unhealthy hoarding. :)
kaiyan717 from West Virginia on February 16, 2013:
Ugh, you had me at the mouth wash comment, I think I threw up a little in my mouth, wow.