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How to Respond to a Notice to Vacate or Eviction Notice

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This article focuses primarily on a notice to vacate situations pertaining to apartments. Additionally, the personal experience cited in this article takes place in Texas.

No information in this article should be taken as legal advice or universally applicable. You may want to consult with a local attorney for your situation.

What to Do If You Get an Eviction Notice

Picture this: You've been living in your apartment for a while now. You've fallen into a nice work-to-home routine and are comfortable enough with calling it your home. Suddenly, for whatever reason, you aren't able to pay your rent. Or, maybe you just forgot—hey, that happens, right? It's just a few days late; you'll just suck it up and pay the late fees. Then, one day, you arrived at home to find a notice at your door. Is it for you? What does it say?

You open it up, and your heart sinks into the pit of your stomach as you read those three words: Notice to Vacate. Or, even scarier: Eviction Notice.

Is this you? Don't panic! This article will hopefully make more sense of your situation for you. Here, find:

  • A sample notice to vacate: What does it look like? Is it legal?
  • What to do when you get a notice to vacate or an eviction notice.
  • Common questions and concerns that you may have about a notice to vacate.
  • My own blurb about my personal experience with a notice to vacate.
  • Important takeaways and things to remember when it comes to a notice to vacate.

Steps to Take If You've Received a Notice to Vacate

Simply put, a notice to vacate is a scare tactic in most cases. If you've received one similarly worded to the one I've shared below, then don't panic. Here are some simple, general steps you should take:

  1. Breathe. Don't panic. It's natural for the worst-case scenarios to run through your head when you get a scarily worded notice like this. But, what you don't know can hurt you the most, and in the end, it's likely all for nothing. So, trust me on this: don't panic.
  2. Speak to your building's front desk or administrative office. They're the ones who've sent you this, so all questions that you're going to have running through your head should and can be addressed by them. If they're closed, and it's after hours like it was in my case, see step number one. Then, in the morning, head over there right away to alleviate those fears.
  3. Pay your rent. This is crucial. While most of these notices are indeed just warnings, they still set the course for eviction if you don't pay up eventually. The sooner, the better.

Bottom line: You will be fine! More questions and curiosities? See below in this article for a sample notice, common questions and concerns that I'll have fleshed out for you, and reminders of the important takeaways from cases like this.

Notice to what? You may find that an Eviction Notice or Notice to Vacate (or Notice to Quit, in some areas) may give confusing and contradicting information regarding your future at the dwelling and what options you have (or if you even have them). Below is a copy of the notice I received just six days after my rent was due (including my three-day grace period). I've taken the liberty to bold the areas that scared me the most.

NOTE: This is meant to serve as a sample for those of you curious as to what this type of notice reads like. Also, as mentioned, I reside in Texas, so things like "TAA Contract" may not appear in the notice you received.



Dear Resident,

Because you have not paid rent for which you are responsible under the lease on your dwelling unit, your rights of occupancy and possession are hereby terminated under the provisions of your lease. You are still liable for rent and other charges you may owe under the TAA Lease Contract.

Demand for possession is hereby made. You are hereby given notice to vacate the dwelling on or before midnight, the 12th of June 2011, which is at least one day from the delivery of this notice as noted below (four days if the notice was mailed). Your failure to move out then will result in appropriate legal action by us before the Justice of the Peace. Delay or postponement of such action does not waive our rights.

This notice to vacate is unconditional; however, if you wish to discuss possible reinstatement of your rights to continue living in the dwelling, please contact us.

As if the message itself isn't enough to make your head spin, things like "Demand for possession," "Vacate the dwelling in three days," and "Unconditional" might be the tipping point and send you into a full-fledged panic mode. This seems like too extreme of a measure to be taken on someone who is just a little late with their rent payment, right? Surely, they can't be serious. Can they even do this?

The fact of the matter is that yes, they absolutely can do this. It is perfectly legal and, perhaps comfortingly, not uncommon. Before you spend hours Googling for an explanation that would offer some reassurance (like I did, which is why I wrote this article for you to find), take a moment to read on. Below are the common questions one asks after receiving this unexpected letter that I will try my best to answer, given what I learned in my experience.

This can't be legal, right?

This can't be legal, right?

Common Questions and Concerns Regarding a Notice to Vacate

The following is a list of questions, concerns, and confusing issues that I wanted to be addressed in my personal experience with receiving a notice to vacate. Allow me to save you some time.

The "grace period" only ended a few days ago! I'm not that late!

You're considered "late" as soon as you surpass the due date of your rent payment—this includes the grace period. So, if you consider "late" as something that begins after your penalty-free window of forgiveness ends, think again. You're not a few days late as of the grace period. You're that many days plus however many days of grace you are given. So, if your rent is due on the 1st of every month and you have a three-day grace period, you're still considered five days late if you pay on the 6th.

Isn't an eviction notice a little over-the-top?

An eviction notice most certainly would be a little harsh if a tenant is just a week late. Fortunately for you, this isn't an actual eviction notice. Instead, it is a threat alerting you that proceedings towards eviction have begun or are in motion. However, you have not been evicted yet. In fact, it is very likely that nothing has even reached a courthouse yet.

Notice to Vacate vs Notice to Quit vs Notice to Pay or Quit vs a 3-Day Notice. What's the difference?

This was easily one of the most confusing things I encountered in my online searches. I would find different definitions for all these classifications. However, they are actually all the same exact thing that have been renamed by whoever issued you the notice. A notice to pay sure does sound a lot more pleasant than notice to vacate, though, doesn't it?

Should I find a new place to live?

Well, that depends. Are you planning on paying the entire amount owed, including all fees incurred up to the day you make the payment? If so, when? The bottom line: You shouldn't begin to really worry until the day and time you've been instructed to vacate has passed. In almost all instances, this seems to be three days from the date of the notice (not the date you received it if that date is different). This is still a very serious situation, however, and it shouldn't be treated lightly.

My notice says it is "unconditional" yet offers an alternative. Huh?

Usually, a notice that is unconditional is bad news. It means that, even if you pay what you owe, you are not being given a second chance and must comply with the demand given. Confusingly, a notice to vacate always seems to directly follow this with what appears to be a contradiction in offering a chance to work things out. How can something claim to be absolute when it offers a possible chance? Well, actually, it's not—you do have options, still. What I discovered in my experience is that the word "unconditional" is, frankly speaking, abused in these notices.

I want to talk to the staff, but they're closed!

Not an uncommon situation at all and worth placing here for that reason. My notice wasn't discovered until after the front office of my apartment complex had closed for the day. Had they been open, I would have discovered that all my fear and panic had been for nothing. See the next question.

Do I need to get a lawyer?

Not quite yet, if at all. If you just received a notice to vacate and the front office of your apartment complex is still open, stop reading and go talk to them right now. They should be the first people you consult.

My Personal Experience With a Notice to Vacate

By now, I hope you are at least somewhat more at ease than you were before reading up to this point. I would now like to share my personal experience with receiving a Notice To Vacate, including the final outcome. Was I actually evicted? Read on.

I was at work—it was a particularly busy day full of stress and angry customers. I felt a headache coming. I wasn't sure what I would cook for dinner that night. Then, as you probably guessed, the phone rang. It was my husband, and he sounded noticeably shaken by something. He explained to me that we had received an "eviction notice" (which later turned out to be untrue, of course), it was unconditional, and we had less than three days to move.

My reaction? I hung up, fuming. My husband and I split the bills down the middle and just realized that my husband, who is notoriously bad at budgeting, had spent all of his "bills money" and, in turn, wouldn't have it until exactly one week after rent was due. I spent the remainder of work in a state of disbelief, confusion, and guilt (I knew we were going to be a week late, so why hadn't I told the front office in advance?).

Upon returning home that night, things did not improve. I was hoping to read the notice and find something my husband had overlooked. I didn't. My head began swimming with questions—what does this mean? Was I going to have to resign my lease? Pay higher rent? And that was if and only if they chose to reinstate. It was nearly midnight, and I had no way of contacting the front office. So, I took to the internet to ease my fears. I found the information that I have shared with you here, but none of that really reassured me that everything was going to be okay.

My husband tried his best to make me feel as though we were exaggerating the situation (this was his attempt to apologize for being late on the payment, I suppose) by citing some information I read online. "They can't issue a notice to vacate without warning first!" While that was absolutely true, I then pointed out to him that the letter we received a day or two after the grace period ended was the warning. It informed us of our past due balance, including late fees, in the form of a "friendly reminder."

Two sleepless hours later, I made sure my husband went straight to the bank to withdraw the rent money we needed (his check had been deposited by that morning). I spent the next hour waiting for him, stewing in anxiety and anticipation as the clock agonizingly ticked slowly. I then decided I needed my fears addressed right then and there—so I took the notice and went to the front office. What happened next filled me with relief . . . and anger.

"Oh, we send those out to everybody, so they'll remember that they need to pay their dues. You aren't being evicted, honey."

I felt as though the world had been lifted off of my shoulders, and I was no longer consumed by this piece of paper. At the same time, though, I felt angry, as though I had just been the victim of a cruel joke. Not only had I spent the last twelve hours thinking my home wouldn't be my home anymore, but I also hadn't slept and had to work that day. Needless to say, it wasn't a fun day at work. At least I still had my home, though!

Remember, rent comes first.

Remember, rent comes first.

Notice to Vacate Takeaways: Important Things to Remember

As you just read, my experience ended positively. Despite what your intuition tells you, despite what scary things you read online imply, I feel confident in telling anyone who has received a notice to vacate (or one of its alternatively-titled replicas) that your situation is likely to end the way mine did. It is now obvious that this notice is used as a scare tactic that clearly works.

However, there are still some things to consider if you have received a notice like mine. Keep in mind these very important takeaways:

Rent comes first!

We all have bills to pay, be it our cell phone, electricity, TV, and/or the Internet. But what good are any of those things if you don't have a place to live? I have never been in such a tight bind that I had to choose between paying rent or paying my light bill (and I hope you haven't either), but if push came to shove, I would rather have an apartment with no electricity than a receipt for paying for electricity that is used in a place where I have been removed.

Always make a point to put aside your rent money before all else, and remember that payments made within the grace period are still considered late (unless, of course, the office was closed on the due date). Repeated late payments, whether you paid fees are not, might be considered by management when it's time to renew your lease.

Pay before your three days is up.

The date you have been given to vacate on the notice needs to be taken seriously. Remember, though, that even if it's a three-day notice, you need to look at the date to vacate instead. This is because sometimes you may not receive this notice until the day before!

This article stresses that your situation can be vindicated just as long as you pay up. Once your vacate date passes, the situation is taken to your local Justice of the Peace with the intent of getting an eviction notice. Typically, you will have around 30 days to actually leave your dwelling. If you refuse, even after finally paying the rent, the police could get involved, and you'll find yourself being escorted out.

There's no shame in begging.

Begging makes you feel powerless and takes a toll on your ego, but when it comes to your home, there is no shame. As mentioned earlier, you should always talk to the front office about the situation, especially if you won't be able to pay within those three days. Depending on your history with the apartment complex, your mannerisms, and the mercy of the person in charge, you may be able to have an eviction notice held off for a little longer. There's no guarantee here, but if you're going to be late anyway, you have nothing to lose by asking.

Protect yourself.

Assuming you have paid your dues and have been informed that you won't be evicted, you should always get a receipt of your payment. The receipt should include the date, time, and amount in which you paid. Additionally, ask for a signed confirmation that all intent to have you evicted has ended. Most apartment complexes have a form they'll give you upon request that says just that. Make sure that's signed, too. Chances are you won't need any of this, but in the unlikely event that you are given an eviction notice after paying the rent, these will be invaluable for legal purposes.

Conclusion: Learn From Your Mistakes

Chances are, you won't find yourself in a courtroom or being escorted out of your home. A notice to vacate is simply a statement of intent. So, pay the balance in full, get proof of payment as well as proof that your lease is no longer in danger, apologize until your face turns blue, and don't let it happen again. It might feel like you're the only person this is happening to at your complex, but your complex probably sends out dozens of these things every year.

If nothing else has eased your mind in this article, consider the following:

When an apartment complex evicts someone, they have to spend a lot of cash to not only cover their court costs but also renovate the dwelling you would have vacated. Not to mention, there's the overall hassle of having to find a new occupant. When an apartment complex sends a notice to vacate, the resident usually pays the dues and that's that. They've made money instead of lost it, and none of the aforementioned hassle is necessary.

Moral of the story? Breathe, don't panic, and pay your rent.

This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.


Ophelia on December 02, 2019:

This isn't completely accurate. As a landlord of a house (not apartment) I can tell you that most leases allow the landlord to evict even if just one day late. Do it twice, you're certainly getting evicted. Apartments are less likely to go through the administrative costs of evicting if they can just get the rent late instead. Homeowners, though, have a mortgage and other monthly bills due on the house so if the tenant pays late, it is a burden. In Texas, as of 2019, if you pay on the 2nd, they LL can evict you. It's up to them if they choose not to. Tenants who take advantage multiple times get evicted. LLs cannot collect late fees for at least 2 days after rent is late so the only way to enforce timely payment of rent by the 1st is to serve with notice to quit. Also, the various notices *are* different. The notice to pay or quit legally requires the LL to wait the days specified (typically 3 in TX) before filing for eviction. If you pay, they can't evict. The notice to quit means they aren't giving you the 2nd, 3rd, or 4th chance to pay before evicting. They are just giving you the amount of days listed to move out. That said, if you aren't habitual, haven't treated the LL poorly, and haven't abused the grace period for late fees, you could talk to the LL and try to assure them you won't let it happen again. They still can withdraw even a full notice to quit (without the option to pay) if you pay them immediately AND successfully convince them you won't ever go past the real due date again. If LLs didn't do have this remedy, they would be forced to accept rent up to a week late every month without any legal recourse. It works both ways. Best best - be on great terms with your LL and most will be understanding, at least once or twice in year.

PMV on November 04, 2018:

I have received this exact same notice. Thank you for this article. I'm going to try to breathe and get a good night's sleep.

Holly young on July 14, 2018:

Im behind on rent, got 10 day evection notice, summons for small claims i just got summons on my credit card thats past due. Im in process of trying to find another job. Not able to borrow off friends or family, cant get a loan due to my credit now. So i have no way of paying my rent owed at this time. Im desparate,What can i do? Any help or suggestions?

Getoutofhere on May 06, 2018:

I received 30 day to vacate notice. They do not wish to renew my lease or to go month to month. I have lived there 15 years. I am not living there and its actually a high priced storage. I want to move so its a blessing. After so many years the place is a wreak. I know they will charge me as much as they can get away with in repairs. Ill pay but what can I do to prolong payment to them? I don't care about them reporting me to credit companies. I own a house and am set financially.

Tequela on April 04, 2018:

Ooh my goodness you are a life savor!! Thank you for writing this article because I was going threw the same things you had mentioned and My notice to vacant had the same exact words as yours in your article. I was panicking and didnt know what I was going to do, and not to mention we had just moved in three weeks ago when we received the notice to vacate.The only reason I was late in the first place was because I had gotten really sick and ended up in the hospital for a few days. But because I read your article it trully helped put mind at ease. I am from Michigan and from what I heard there notice to vacate is totally diffrent from Texas. So thank you once again you have trully helped a lot people including me.

Quasar on October 05, 2017:

You have done a good job of explaining the issues here. I have just come from the manager after receiving this notice with the words unconditional, which caused me alarm. The manager said about the same thing you did above. No other apartment before has sent me such a letter and I felt compelled to speak with the manager. You have done a good job for people with this problem and thanks for it.

Karin narvaez on September 26, 2017:

Hi I got evicted yesterday by police n sheriff I was not able my belongings they would not let me go inside alone do they have the right to search my stuff

Yasmin on September 25, 2017:

I have been asked to vacate because I didnt empty my recycle bin within 7 days what actions can I take please help me!!??

david rothchild from New York New York on July 05, 2017:

This info is very important. Every State has its own rules about evictions. Its a bad situation for everyone involved but you have to follow the rules to make sure its being done fairly. If you owe and you cant make it then try to be honest and not hide and tell them that you will not damage the property and you understand you have to vacate. Thats all you can do.. Great Article!

Edward Johnson on June 19, 2017:

On 6/12/2017, I left a pot of boiling water on the stove.The flame was very low but it cause a lot of smoke because it was burning for a few hours.I called the management office and no one picked up, so I called the fire department from my car phone,!! Now she sent me a Notice to Cease, and this is my first time even making any bad judgment.I lived here for 21 yrs. What should I do!! Help please!! I live in subsidized housing in South Jersey. There was no damages,she said I was violating my lease Agreement and destroying the peaceful environment of the enjoyment of my neighbors!!!

Kim on June 09, 2017:

Thanks for sharing your experience. Almost same exact situation I was in and was looking everywhere on the internet for possible alternatives. After reading your story, I got some sleep and learned you were absolutely correct the next day. It meant a lot, thank you very much and God bless you!

Stressed Dude on May 04, 2017:

thank you so much for this, it really helped put my mind at ease

Linda on February 07, 2017:

I received a "Notice to Quit" on February 1st stating we had to be out by February 3rd. It wasn't even a full 3 days. It was sent via email, left on our door and the owner opened our mailbox with his spare key and left it in our mail. The next day i received another email from the owner with the notice to vacate attached. On February 5th he sent the police to our house stating we were trespassers. Once I explained to the officers the situation..they left. Then on February 7th I received a phone call from my supervisor at work stating that someone came and served papers for me. I went to pick them up and seen that it was a court date for an eviction. My supervisor has asked for a meeting with me now because of this. I also received the paperwork in the mail. I feel like I am being harassed and intimidated. Prior to all of this happening we have verbally agreed with the owners that we would be out of the premises by February 20th. We also agreed to pay him prorated rent for those days based off our original rent. When all this started he stated that he wanted his toupee a prorated rent off of what his new rent is going to be plus a daily deposit totaling a total of $150 a day. I need some kind of legal advice I don't know what to do but I believe that this whole process is unnecessary

Tiffany on October 04, 2016:

Thank you for the post. This just happened to me tonight. I hope I am allowed to stay like most of the others. I agree this is a very stressful situation. I paid the rent before I received the notice to vacate. This is great information. I did not know that the "grace" period was actually considered late as well. I almost always pay on the 2nd or 3rd. No more of that. I will sign up for auto pay if I can. This was way to stressful. Thank you again for sharing your story. It's nice to know I'm not the only one in this position.

Adam on May 11, 2016:

nice post, this is typically what happened to me, I was panic as I was suck and forget to buy the rent and after 1 day (on 4th of month )I got the notice

I googled , searching until I found this post which make me confident

I payed my rent online and 2nd day I went to office and simply they mentioned I am ok

Johnna on April 06, 2016:

This made me feel better. I was seriously freaked out. I guess I forgot to pay rent, but I swore I thought I had paid it, turns out I didn't, as soon as I got the notice, I paid my rent online, emailed the office a copy of the receipt, and I learned I was not going to be homeless.

Christie on February 08, 2016:

Thank you. You actually made me feel a whole lot calmer

WorryWart on February 05, 2016:

Thank you a bunch for this article. I received this notice the day after the grace period. I thought I was for sure evicted and only had two days to leave. The late payment was a pure accident, and I really was confused why they would kick me out after less than one day!

I haven't spoke to them yet (office is closed), but I feel much better now. Thank you again.

Grateful on January 06, 2016:

This was exactly what I needed to read. Thank you so much for posting this.

Gideon on February 05, 2015:


Very helpful. We received exactly similar notice and our hearts really sank to our stomach.

Thankful that i found this page.

Thank you!

Anonymous on December 16, 2014:

This was horrifyingly pointless and doesn't help me with my situation.

Maria on June 09, 2014:

Thank you, thank you, thank you :-)!

Not a user on June 12, 2013:

We just received the same notice. All we had to do was obtain a cashier's check and we were good to go. Very scary at first, but settled in the end.

Grichards on May 08, 2013:

Thanks for the information. I was 3 days late on my rent and received a Notice to Vacate posted on my door when I got home. My heart sank and I did panic. I barely slept that night thinking I would be homeless in the next 5 days. Once I spoke to the property manager the next day, she reassured me that I have until 5 days to pay the rent and late fees. As long as it's paid by then I am fine. I was relieved, but a little upset because the Notice to Vacate verbiage is very threatening. After reading this article I am glad to know I am not the only one who experienced this and felt the same way I did. Thanks!

ejgilbert from Texas on December 05, 2012:

I just wanted to tell you that I am in this predicament right now. I live in an submetered complex and though I paid my rent ontime, I have fallen behind on my utilities by 4 months. I am currently chewing on my nails awaiting the vacate notice today that I am almost certain will arrive. I paid a month off last month, but of course I am scared now due to me not being able to make another payment until a week after the next bill was due they will try to get me. But knowing they are not going to truly do anything right away, once I make a payment no matter how small it is, that vacate notice won't matter So thank you so much!

billabongbob from South Wales, UK on October 11, 2011:

Great hub, informative and well portrayed. Reassuring for anyone in a similar situation. Voted up ;)

Deborah-Diane from Orange County, California on October 10, 2011:

This information could be very reassuring and helpful for many people!

Jennifer Vasconcelos from Cyberspace and My Own World on October 10, 2011:

Good info!