The Truth About Being a Real Estate Agent

So, you're thinking about pursuing a career in Real Estate? You've heard a lot about the flexible schedule, being your own boss and the major commissions. Sounds perfect, right? Well, there is a lot to Real Estate that you must understand before you jump into a career. You may hate your current job or be interested in starting a new chapter in your life, but are you sure it's the Real Estate Industry and not just the luring promises of wealth and flexibility? Because I can tell you right now, flexible schedule means you will make yourself available 24/7, being your own boss can mean the constant stress of hitting your sales goals and as far as the commission goes, I shouldn't even need to mention that the Real Estate market is not in its healthiest state.

You have to think of being a Real Estate Agent as owning your own business. You will hear a lot of agents talk about their "business" and it really is the best way to think of it when you're starting out. You are an Independent Contractor, so you will have to take on managing your own taxes. If you're smart, you should keep receipts for your travel expenses, advertising, and education from the very beginning because these are tax-deductible. You may have to hire an accountant or do some research, but this is your hard earned money and the government wants to encourage small business ownership with these deductions, so take advantage of this as soon as possible.

In order to sell Real Estate you must be listed with a Broker. You can go with a large brand name, which usually have some great tools for new Agents, or you can go with a smaller, boutique Broker. I personally listed with Keller Williams because they have a ton of support and really useful cutting-edge technology. My best advice if you're serious about getting into Real Estate would be to set up a couple informational interviews with different brokers. Let them know ahead of time that you're considering getting your license, so there are no expectations and they don't feel like you've wasted their time. What you need to understand with Brokers is that THEY WANT YOU. You may feel like you're being interviewed but just think about what you're interviewing for; they don't spend any money by listing you, they may offer different tools or a great commission split but they do get a portion of your commissions. Listing you makes them money, so be very careful in choosing your Broker and make sure you have a list of questions that they can answer to help you decide.

Owning a successful business is not something you just stumble into, and the same is true with being a great Real Estate Agent. If you want to be successful, you may have to struggle through the first couple years. As the years pass you will work mostly on the referrals and reputation that you built up in your early years. Your business will be set on cruise control if you can maintain the values that got you there.

Like owning a business, the easiest advertising is word of mouth, which when you're new, may mean a lot of cold calling on expired leads. Keep in mind, you are a Real Estate Salesperson, this job is as much about selling as it is about Real Estate. If picking up the phone and calling strangers isn't for you, then this might not be the job for you. If you can grit your teeth and bear it, then you will do well. You will have to sell yourself to homeowners by setting up Listing Presentations, you have to look at it as an interview to earn their business.

Word of mouth will always be your cheapest and most effective form of Advertising and the more connections you have, the bigger your business will be. TV Shows like Selling New York and Million Dollar Listing have definitely glamorized everything about Real Estate. It seems like they spend a week or two working and wind up with thousands, sometimes hundreds of thousands of dollars for their "hard work". The most important thing to understand is that great commissions do exist, but you will have to work VERY HARD for them. You must grow your business, become knowledgeable, and maintain a great reputation before you stumble yourself into hundred thousand dollar deals. If you already have ridiculous trust-fund, country club connections already, then disregard this whole paragraph and congratulations, you will do well. For the rest of us, we will have to work for those connections and maintain a great relationship with our clients.

This brings me to the next reality of the world of Real Estate; the clients. If you don't enjoy working with people, then Real Estate will be a very bad fit for you and even if you love people, there will be an adjustment. You will not always have the perfect client. So many sellers unrealistically think their house is worth more than it is and the same amount of buyers think their money should be able to buy more house than it will. If you can't level with your clients and curb their expectations then they will think you were the problem in not getting them $30,000 over market value or a 5 bedroom house in a gated community for $100,000. You are the expert and they hired you to guide them, whether they take that guidance or not is up to them.

Handling multiple clients means handling multiple schedules. Sure, you can have a flexible enough schedule to make it all work, but what about your buyers who work 9-5 jobs? Their only option for house shopping is going to be nights and weekends. There isn't too much glamor in being on-call 24/7, but to be a good agent you should always be available to your clients. On that same note, the best Agents I know are in the office at 8:30 Monday-Friday unless they are out showing. They are ready and available if someone happens to wander into the office with a Real Estate need. This is your competition, they take this job seriously and this is how they got to where they are.

Lastly, and most importantly, let's talk about the MONEY. Being your own boss and cashing in on commissions is definitely the most alluring part of the job, but sometimes business just isn't good. Like I said, and don't even need to say, the Real Estate market and the economy are not doing so well right now. You make your money off of SALES and SALES only. If you show a buyer around for 3 months, spending hours a week with them, hundreds of dollars in gas money, finding them a perfect house, writing up the paperwork then at the last minute things fall through or they decide against buying, guess what? You get nothing.

Most people will try to keep you positive and say, well, when they're ready to buy, they will come back to you. This is sometimes true, but it also doesn't put food on your table. My grandmother was a Real Estate Agent her whole life and my dad remembers coming home to the power being shut off on them, on multiple occasions. She was a very hard worker, but there are tons of outside factors with Real Estate. There are a lot of Agents barely making ends meet at various times in their career.

Real Estate can be very rewarding, both professionally and financially, for the right people. You might need to make sacrifices in the beginning but this is a career, not a fly-by-night venture. You now own your own business and your success is completely in your own hands. One of my favorite quotes is that "Entrepreneurship is living a few years of your life like most people won't, so that you can spend the rest of your life like most people can't." This is your business, you have to put your time into it and earn each clients' respect and eventually you will have a very successful career in Real Estate.

Still Interested? Find out about the licensing process and fees here.

And check out my website Find My Perfect Agent to learn about cheap and effective real estate advertising.

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Ingenira 5 years ago

I have known many engineers who actually switched their job to become a real estate agent... which they found much more interesting and comes with good income. Is it really that attractive? I wondered. Perhaps it is a great job to be your own boss.

Great article !

Voted up.

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AllisonSchnur 5 years ago from Orlando Author

Thank you! I'm really enjoying the community feel and being around so many positive attitudes! :) Thank you so much for the rating and fan mail.

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carrie Lee Night 4 years ago from Northeast United States

I always wanted to explore the avenue of real estate when I was younger, but when I got older I learned how hard it is to be an agent, its like being a doctor on call all the time. Some agents don't have the time to do anything and they are only making small hourly rates when you break down how much time you spend with a client and get a commission of $2500.00 for 3 months work. Thank you for this direct approach to the real estate world, some people out there need to hear it before they quit their jobs.

guy 20 months ago

Very informative. Thank you!

Beatrice 18 months ago

Very good article for beginners and on point. I can relate to everything you wrote about.

Pete 18 months ago

I've been a Realtor for 12 years. This is the most detailed and accurate description of what it's really like to be a Realtor than anything else I've read on the web. Anyone thinking of being a Realtor needs to read this first. Nice job!

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Ken Burgess 7 months ago from Florida

As others have commented, very good article, I would say you put in a nice detailed way - "You'll get out of the job what you put into it, its not easy, it takes hard work AND strong people skills... so if you like the ease of a steady paycheck and little or no responsibility, Real Estate is NOT for you."

Do you remember the list of questions you used to ask the Brokers when you went in for those interviews you mentioned, I am curious as to what they were, and how you found their responses?

Matt Morring 2 months ago

This article was very informative and very straight foward. Real Estate is not easy, like getting listings. As someone told be listings are your life line. If you don't have listings then you want be very successful. There are so may people even now getting into Real Estate. Real Estate is all that I do and it is satisfying when you get a listing and then make a sell. It can also be very disheartening.

missyparker 6 weeks ago

Hello Allison,

Great Article. Honest and Direct!

I am thinking of becoming a real estate agent, and I liked the idea you mentioned in your article about " to set up a couple informational interviews with different brokers. Let them know ahead of time that you're considering getting your license," however, how do you get to talk to them? I call and no one returns my calls, I email and receive no replies.

How do I get an informational interview before I get my license? I would like to know my options before I put almost $1000 down on something I may not want to do. What is your advice on getting their attention and getting into a good agency?

Thank you so much for your advice!


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